Author: Leslie Kimel

Sprucing up the Vegetable Garden

Sprucing up the Vegetable Garden

This weekend Rob and I had lots of fun working in our vegetable garden. We weeded, planted, harvested, and generally rejoiced for spring. I was most proud of the weeding we did. We got everything looking so tidy. We kept standing back to admire our 

Recently

Recently

Here are a few little projects I’ve been working on recently: I planted red cyclamens and white petunias in my front-porch pots. I was in Home Depot on Valentine’s Day and the cyclamens caught my eye because the flowers looked so much like hearts. I’ve 

Josie

Josie

Two weeks ago, our cat Josie got very sick. She had a 105-degree temperature. She wouldn’t eat. All she wanted to do was sleep. We thought she was going to die, but it turned out she just had a bad urinary tract infection. We gave her antibiotics and fed her a special diet of kitten milk and kitten food and high-calorie gel and . . . and (surprisingly, amazingly) she got better!

It was very satisfying nursing Josie. She was the nicest patient. She just sat in my lap and purred as I read Drifting into Darien. Josie has never been anything but nice to me. She thinks I’m great, though I’m not too great. When she’s well, she likes to follow me around. She likes to lie on the couch with me, and she doesn’t mind if I hug her like a teddy bear. We watch shows like CSI and The Mentalist and we always fall asleep in the middle. Anyway, that is our simple life.

And I’m so glad that we can keep going, doing our dumb little things, that we’ve been given more time. Josie is such a gentle cat. She likes to sit and gaze, her head slightly cocked. At such moments she seems to be puzzling over the world and its curious ways, thinking deep philosophical thoughts. When she purrs, it sounds like cooing; she sounds like a dove. She has fur that’s very soft, like a bunny’s, and funny loose skin that makes me think of a flying squirrel’s cape.

Josie’s almost 13. Rob and I rescued her and her sister, Foxy, when we were still living in Atlanta; we found them in a vacant lot in a rundown section of town. They were really wild and crazy when we first met them in the vacant lot. I remember we walked to a nearby convenience store and got them a can of sardines, and they were so ravenous. They were going nuts for the sardines—Foxy and Josie and their tiny brother, Timmy (Timmy was later adopted by Rob’s friend Dan). They were grabbing sardines with their teeth and running away with them, but then Foxy got confused and mistook her brother’s foot for a sardine. She tried to run away with Timmy’s foot, and he was crying and protesting in his tiny way, and falling down. They were all so little, so bewildered, so new to the world.

I remember our first year with Foxy and Josie, how pleased it made me feel to keep them safe, to baby them. I would think about that mean, cold, ugly vacant lot where they had lived before and be so glad that they were now snug in the house, happily climbing my lace curtains. It still makes me feel good to take care of them. I like feeding them and brushing them. I don’t think happiness comes from having fun; I think it comes from caring for another living creature.

Some More Quincy Scenery

Some More Quincy Scenery

Here are a few more shots of Quincy, my beloved little town. I took them last August, actually, when the gardens around the various old mansions and other buildings were still lush and green. I’m not sure why I finally decided to write about them 

Mom’s Yard

Mom’s Yard

I wanted to tell you a little bit about my mom’s yard because it’s so beautiful and because it is the setting for so many of our family events. It’s the setting for so many of our memories. Mom started …

Rose Sale at Goodwood

Rose Sale at Goodwood

Glorious Goodwood

Each year in February, the Tallahassee Area Rose Society holds an heirloom rose sale at Goodwood Museum and Gardens, a beautiful old plantation now open to the public. Goodwood is famous for its rose gardens, and many of the roses offered for sale are grown from cuttings of Goodwood’s very own plants. Proceeds from the sale are used for the restoration and maintenance of Goodwood’s 16 acres.

Our family goes to the rose sale every year. It’s a major event in our lives. Dad, Bunny, Kris, and I all collect old roses, and together we own hundreds—most of which we’ve purchased at Goodwood. The sale isn’t exactly fun; it’s actually kind of stressful. You have to get there early and stand in line, waiting for Rose Society officials to open the gates. Once you’re in, shopping can get really competitive since certain varieties tend to quickly sell out. Seriously, folks will be pushing and shoving, and once you’ve made your selections you can’t just set them aside and continue shopping. No, you’ve got to guard them so nobody “steals” them while you’re still browsing around.

Well, this year’s sale was on Saturday. Bunny and I had been preparing for weeks, researching roses and drafting lists of the ones we hoped to buy. At eight o’clock on Saturday morning, we were standing in line with Sophie and Kris and our little red shopping wagons, waiting to enter the sale. The line got longer and longer. Dad arrived a bit later than we did and he stood smiling and waving to us from far in the back.

Bun and I kept joking about how “nervous” we were and trying to come up with the best strategy for shopping. We were really hamming it up, acting as if we were preparing to charge into battle.

Finally, the gates opened.

“Go, go!” Bunny shouted in a whisper, giggling. “Take the wagons up the center aisle and park them at the back!”

“Yes,” I said, giggling too, “we can’t be dragging wagons around the whole time. We’ve got to be nimble here and quick! Last year I hurdled a stroller. . . . Sophie, when we park the wagons, you guard them, okay? Guard them with your life!”

The mad scramble for roses lasted maybe 20 minutes. When it was over we were all laughing and breathless.

“What did you get?” Bunny asked me.

“I have no idea!” I said. My list had proven useless and I’d been forced to make my selections randomly, on the fly.

Together we’d chosen a total of 26 roses, but it was all a blur.

“I feel like I just participated in a smash and grab,” I said. (I was still panting.) “I feel like I ought to be arrested right now.”

Here’s what I got; here was my haul: Old Blush, Pink Pet, Monsieur Tillier, General Schablikine, Morgan’s Spring, Madame Antoine Mari, Natchitoches Noisette, Clytemnestra, Smith’s Parish, and China Spice.

Dad’s so nice. Every year he insists on paying for all the roses. “Now remember,” he said, “I’ll get these.” And when we protested, he said, “No, no, now this is my treat!”

Dad’s always really happy at the rose sale. He was the first one in the family to discover heirloom roses, 15 years ago now. He was so enthusiastic about them that we all soon saw their charms.

After we hauled our roses to our cars, we strolled the lush, wonderfully unkempt grounds of Goodwood. It was a sunny, spring-like day and the gardens were full of flowers: daffodils, camellias, azaleas, and Japanese magnolias. There were even a few roses blooming, even though it’s still only February.

We admired some daffodils growing along a little path by the old swimming pool, and Dad said, “Oh, I know what these are. In fact, I have some in my yard! They’re called ‘Sweetness.’”

And Kris and Bun and I said, “Neat!” . . . And: “What a perfect name!”

We headed over to the West Lawn, where thousands of heirloom bulbs have been planted over the last hundred years or so. In the middle of the lawn, there’s a white Victorian wire bench that’s the embodiment of the word “ethereal”; it’s got a weightless, floating quality about it. Its back looks like a fan or an angel wing, and it was surrounded on Saturday by drifts of summer snowflakes, daffodils, and freesia.

“Oh, look at that!” we were saying. And: “Oh, isn’t it pretty?”

“I think this might be the prettiest place in the whole entire world,” I sighed.

“What kind of daffodils are these, Dad?” Bun asked.

“I’m not sure,” Dad said. “But aren’t they just great? What I like about daffodils is they’re always so cheerful.”

“Oh, they are,” I nodded. “I know. It’s so true.”

Dad often points out the cheeriness of daffodils, and I always agree with him, every time. You see, our father-daughter conversations in gardens, about gardens, tend to have a sort of ritualistic quality about them, kind of like the call-and-response during Mass. We repeat ourselves. We say what we’ve always said. I guess what we’re doing is reaffirming our shared beliefs—that flowers matter, that beauty matters, that nature is a sacred thing. Kris and Bunny and I have been talking like this with Dad since we were small children.

After thoroughly extolling the virtues of daffodils, we moved on to camellias (“Now aren’t camellias just terrific plants?” Dad said). At this point Sophie began to get a little bored with us, so she started picking up fallen camellia blossoms and throwing them at me. We walked on to a bed of ancient roses, each rose carefully labeled. (I was being pelted all the way.) And when Dad said, “Now Emma Grace—that is a wonderful rose. . . .” Sophie announced that she was going to go sit in the car.

Goodwood’s gardens have been restored to their 1920s appearance. Note the swept dirt yard in front of the house.
Sophie near the West Lawn
I know this post is supposed to be about roses, but Goodwood’s camellias definitely overshadow all its other flowers at this time of year.

Detail from a chair sitting by the old greenhouse

Goodwood’s famous garden gnome
The house reflected in the gazing ball
Antiquing in Dothan

Antiquing in Dothan

Rob and I went antiquing in Dothan on Saturday. It was so much fun. A little road trip is always the greatest treat. I just love the sense of adventure—the promise of the open road and the whole day ahead of me. I guess what’s 

Grandma’s House

Grandma’s House

My grandparents on my mother’s side lived on a small dairy farm in Wisconsin, in Brown County, near Green Bay. I grew up in Florida, far away, so I only got to visit the farm a few times. Yet even though my visits were infrequent, 

Clean as a Whistle

Clean as a Whistle

Rob and I did nothing but clean our house this weekend. We cleaned it from top to bottom. We washed all the baseboards and mopped all the floors and brushed all the furniture and cleaned the windows and the windowsills and all the moldings. Of course, since we have a million cats, most of what we were cleaning up was cat fur.

So, as we scrubbed, Rob was playfully berating our furry friends, saying, “Cats are disgusting animals!” And: “You can either have nice things or you can have cats. You can’t have both!”

As you might expect, the cats didn’t care what Rob said. They spent the weekend as they usually would–happily scratching the furniture and shedding.

On Sunday, as we crawled around with our bucket of soapy water for the second day in a row and June Baxter tracked cat litter across the kitchen table, Rob pretended to have a meltdown. (He was just joking.) “You know what’s great about cleaning?” he said. “You know what’s the best part? The results are totally permanent!”

Anyway, here are some pictures I took before things got too messed up again:

The front bedroom. Mom made a number of the toys you see in the picture, including the cute little sleeping cat.
The front bedroom again. I really want to paint this roommaybe marigold.
The kitchen. My brother-in-law Matt made the beautiful stained-glass window.
The sun room. This used to be a porch, but it was enclosed long ago. It’s the cats’ favorite room. They love to wrestle in the sunbeams.
The back hall
The back bedroom
The back bedroom again. Becky is the cat in the pictures over the fireplace. And yes, our house is filled with pictures of our cats.
Carl, Foxy, and Becky getting their fur all over the living room