Mom’s Christmas Pecan Balls
I’d like to take time out from my England-trip posts to say how happy I was to be home this weekend. I got to do all my favorite things: play with the cats, garden, and bake cookies!
I’d like to take time out from my England-trip posts to say how happy I was to be home this weekend. I got to do all my favorite things: play with the cats, garden, and bake cookies!
On Tuesday we took a train from London to Warwick, a tiny Tudor town in Shropshire, in order to see Warwick Castle, one of the best, most famous castles in England.
I did not want to get up that morning because our room in London was so incredibly cold. The heat didn’t work, and the blanket was extremely thin and short. There was no water pressure, and the shower was just a trickle–alternately scalding and freezing. I didn’t want to take a shower that morning, but I did it anyway, relying on sheer force of will to see me through. It was so cold with the cold water trickling down my back. I was shivering and shaking and moaning.
When I came out of the bathroom, I said to Rob, “Could you hear me crying in there?”
“No,” Rob said, “but I could hear you saying, ‘Oh, why? Why?'” He did a very skillful impression of me being melodramatic.
Luckily, the train ride to Warwick was quite warm and relaxing. The train was so quiet, nearly empty, and we made our way quietly into the countryside, through brilliant green pastures dotted with sheep and bordered by hedgerows and little sparkling creeks.
When the conductor came to punch my ticket, I couldn’t find it–because I’m a stupid American who’s basically never ridden a train before. (More seasoned travelers would have kept their tickets handy.) Finally, after a flustered search, I did find it, and I apologized for the delay. “That’s all right,” the young conductor said merrily. “No worries. Cheers!” And he went on his way.
We arrived in Warwick at about 10:00 and walked to Warwick Castle. It was so cold we were pretty much the only people there. We had the run of the place. We really got our money’s worth, too, because we spent the entire day exploring the drafty castle and its lovely, frigid grounds.
I don’t know how to describe it. It was a castle, a real castle. This wasn’t Disney World. Everything was real and incredibly old. The original motte-and-bailey castle (a motte is an earthen mound and a bailey is a walled courtyard) was built in 1068 by William the Conquerer. About 100 years later, the motte-and-bailey was replaced with a stone castle. In 1604 the castle was converted into a country house, and various earls of Warwick and other rich people lived there for the next 350 years.
I’ll try to give you a little taste of what we saw: stone towers, an empty moat, a dungeon containing antique torture devices, drawbridges, parapets, dark cedars full of ravens, rhododendron thickets, a falconer doing bird shows, the Avon River (very small and gentle), gliding swans, a thatch-roofed boathouse, grand old oaks with ruffled golden leaves. Peacocks strolled the grounds. Jousting demonstrations were held. We admired a formal rose garden that was sound asleep and almost entirely gray except for its pure green pond.
We toured the Great Hall, which was full of suits of armor and which contained the biggest fireplace I’ve ever seen. We read that in the beginning, in medieval times, the floor of the Great Hall would have been just soil and hay, and there would have been animal skins strewn about with lots of people sleeping on them.
It was so nice to be inside the slightly warm castle, away from the cutting wind, but I must confess I was hesitant to go inside at all because of my shy person’s fear of costumed interpreters/reenactors. You see, interpreters were everywhere, playacting among the various posed waxed figures (Warwick Castle is now run by the Madame Tussauds people). So most of the day I was nervous and kind of hiding, afraid I’d be swept up into some sort of theatrical nonsense and I wouldn’t know what to do or say. Oh, you should have witnessed my consternation when one of the interpreters, dressed as a Victorian lady, asked Rob and me to introduce ourselves to a wax gentleman standing by the fireplace. We had already been forced to tell the maid who we were and where we were from, and she had announced our arrival to the lady of the house. I was hiding behind Rob, giggling nervously and looking for a fire exit.
Anyway, this explains why most of the day we were outside, roaming the gardens in the whipping wind or standing at the top of a tower in the whipping wind. I was so cold. My nose kept dripping . . . right onto the ground.
On day two we took the tour bus to Westminster Abbey. It was so cold–I mean, brutally cold. We went on a guided tour of the abbey. Our guide was a verger in a long black cassock–a rather prissy, persnickety fellow who didn’t put up …
Rob and I just got back from England! It was my first trip to Europe (Rob’s second), so it was a really big deal and very exciting!
Christine Sibley leaf man
I’ve got kind of a mixed bag of pictures here from the weekend. And this time I think I’ll actually talk about some them–instead of just ignoring them.
I’ve added a couple of pieces to my collection of Christine Sibley garden sculptures: a creepy hand holding a butterfly, and the baby doll-like Triton pictured below. I started collecting Christine Sibley stuff in the mid ’90s when I lived near her gallery/studio/garden, Urban Nirvana, in Atlanta’s Inman Park neighborhood. Rob and I were really poor then, but we’d go there sometimes, usually at Christmas, and buy little pieces for our family. The gallery was in an old brick warehouse–cavernous and freezing cold in winter. So by far my favorite part of Urban Nirvana was the tangled garden, full of fantastic sculptures . . . and real ducks and geese. (Perhaps a goat as well. Or did I make that up?) There were banana trees and vine-smothered arches and cracked mermaid faces under water. A birdbath shaped like a giant sunflower. Leaf people. Angels and goddesses . . . Urban Nirvana closed in 1998, I think, and Christine Sibley died in 1999.
Christine Sibley’s Triton. Rob laughs at this one, because of the chubby cheeks. When I first showed it to him he said, “Okay, now that is dumb.”
It was such a warm, golden weekend. The sumac is turning red, and the sassafras is orange and scarlet. The sky was such an intense autumn blue, perfectly clear; the hawks and buzzards really stood out against it. The old pecans are taking on their winter look, their branches bare except for clumps of mistletoe and Spanish moss. Bare pecan trees and hawk cries and cobalt-blue skies–that’s November in Quincy to me. The air always smells of fireplace smoke.
Rob and I worked on our pond garden again on Saturday. We first started digging the pond in January. Since then we’ve finished the pond itself, surrounded it with limestone rocks and boulders, and filled it with lots of native aquatic plants and goldfish. We’ve added a picket fence, painted said fence (a real bear of a job), cleared all the invasive species from the area, mulched around the pond, and created curving beds around the fence. On Veterans’ Day we finished building a fine stone path leading around the pond and through the gate.
But it won’t be until we get back from England that we can start on the best part: filling the beds with native azaleas and rusty blackhaws, sparkleberries, needle palms, coonties, Christmas ferns, royal ferns, and native gingers and wildflowers! My favorite season–planting season–is about to begin, and I am totally jazzed.
My latest Mule Day birdhouse, displayed in the pond garden
On Sunday Kris and I took pictures in downtown Tallahassee’s Chain of Parks, a series of seven lush little city parks, each just one block long. The parks are dark green all year round with giant needle palms, holly ferns, and camellias. Charming brick paths wind through the beds. Around the parks, here and there, are remnant antebellum mansions, the old gardens gone wild (they’re really more like cabbage-palm forests now).
Kris and I tried to take pictures, but we gave up pretty fast because Sophie and Jake were with us and they wanted to play. So mostly we just ran around in our dress-up clothes and laughed and pretended to be squirrels. Sophie made up all our squirrel names: I was Sugar (a white squirrel), Jake was Chester, Sophie was Nutty, and Kris was Midge/Patrice (she played two characters).
“Sugar,” Sophie/Nutty said, “did you know I have a restaurant? Would you like to work there, Sugar? What would you like to do? Would you like to be a cleaner?”
And then Jake/Chester yelled, “But I am already the cleaner! That isn’t fair, Sophie–I mean, Nutty! Mommy, why does Nutty get to be in charge of everything?!”
Jake kept wanting all the lady squirrels to fall in love with him. He developed a story line in which he fell out of a tree and needed some sort of first aid. “And Mommy–I mean, Midge–let’s say you are bandaging my leg and then you notice how cute I am!”
“Oh, this little squirrel sure is cute,” Kris/Midge would say.
“What? What, Mommy–I mean, Midge? What did you say?” Jake/Chester would shout. “You want to go on a date? Did you say you want to go on a date with me?”
At the end, Sophie and Jake found a little patch of ice left over from Friday’s Downtown Get-Down festivities and they did some hilarious ice dances for us. (They were still squirrels when they were dancing.) They did the Cha Cha Slide . . . and splits and jazz hands and dramatic poses. They’re both the biggest hams. As they danced, Kris and I sat nearby, cheering and hooting and rating their performances.
When Jake/Chester finished his last dance (ending in a split), Kris/Midge cried, “Oh, that one gets an 11!”
And I said, “Chester, I think that judge wants to marry you!”
Jake just looked at me. “Um, Leslie,” he said, “this is a kids’ show. I really don’t think you should be saying that.”
Then Sophie started fretting because she had ice in her shoes. “Um, can we go home?” she said. Getting ice in your shoes constitutes an emergency.
As Jake/Chester was getting in the car I could hear him saying to his mother, “Ma’am, did you want to know if I will go on a date with you? Did you? Sure. I will go. What would you like to do?”
Jake, song and dance man
Fed up with the paparazzi
On Saturday Mom, Kris, Bun, Rob, and I went to Mule Day in Calvary, Georgia, a tiny town (population: 200) just about half an hour north of Quincy. Mule Day is one of my favorite festivals.
Last night I was reading an old journal from 2004 and I realized how different our lives used to be when Kris’s kids were very young. The preschool-age Sophie really put us through our paces! We played imagination games with her all the time, and …
Mom saves clown pepper seeds every year; she gave us our seedlings this spring.
On Saturday morning Rob and I picked 27 ounces of peppers (a big harvest for us). They were mostly clown peppers, but there were also lots of Golden Summer Hybrids (a yellow bell pepper) and plenty of shiny habaneros and cayennes too. We planted all our peppers in spring, but it’s only now that they’re really kicking into high gear.
Rob really exulted in our pepper harvest. He kept shouting, “What are we going to do with all these peppers?!” And laughing and trying to guess how much they were going to weigh.
It was a beautiful moment in the garden, morning time, everything glittering with dew. Our collard patch is looking fine, and so are the cabbages, both the purple and white. The Sparkling Burgundy sasanqua is blooming, shedding petals all over the ground around its roots. (The fallen petals always make me think of a fancy Christmas tree skirt; they are so much a part of what makes a sasanqua beautiful.)
Rob was fussing with his patch of turnip seedlings, thinning them and fretting over them. “I think they’re not getting quite enough sun right now,” he declared. “But as soon as all the leaves fall, they’ll be fine. They’ll be just fine!” I think Rob gets worried then tries to allay his own fears with very optimistic statements. He never wants me to worry either so he’s always telling me, “Everything’s great. Everything’s going great for us right now. It’ll all turn out just fine!”
And I must say I like it. I like to be reassured.
All these peppers were put to use in the Thai tofu burritos we made on Sunday.