Tag: grief

Sweet Babs

Sweet Babs

Babs died on Wednesday. I won’t go on and on about how angry I am about this. I’ll just say I’ve been writing down my memories of her, and here are just a few: She would always sit on the steps by the screen door 

Therapy Cats

Therapy Cats

Our other cats are trying to make us feel better about Jammer. They’re trying to distract us with their wrestling matches and enjoyment of sunbeams and such. Carl is keeping us busy, making sure we’re on track. …

Cabbage Salad with Ramen Noodles

Cabbage Salad with Ramen Noodles

Last Sunday when Jammer was still with us, when he was still resting in his little bed next to my desk in the Little House, we harvested a couple of fine cabbages, glittering with raindrops, and we made a cabbage salad. We’d check on him, maybe brush him (softly), maybe try to feed him some baby food, and then we’d do some more cabbage-chopping, in tears. The resulting salad was strangely, sadly delicious–sweet and salty and crunchy. We didn’t know Jammer was going to die, so we made a cabbage salad. We didn’t know what else to do, so we made a cabbage salad. And now it’s the same way, now that he’s dead: I don’t know what to do, so I’m writing about making a cabbage salad.

Cabbage Salad with Ramen Noodles

Ingredients:

1 large head cabbage, chopped
5 green onions, chopped
2 carrots, shredded
2 pkg. Ramen noodles (just the noodles, not the flavor packs)
½ cup sunflower seeds
½ cup slivered almonds
½ cup vegan butter

Dressing:

1 cup canola oil
2 Tbls soy sauce
1 cup sugar
½ cup apple cider vinegar
1 tsp salt

Directions:

Break up the Ramen noodles. Brown the noodles, sunflower seeds, and almonds in butter and set aside.

In a large bowl, toss noodles, sunflower seeds, almonds, cabbage, onions, and carrots together.

Combine dressing ingredients. Toss into salad.

Candid Jams

Candid Jams

I thought I’d post some candid shots of Jammer, most of them taken by Rob, just so I could remember and think about how funny Jammer was and how he liked to spend his days. He liked to “take the air,” as we used to 

A Remembrance

A Remembrance

Jammer, great Jammer, died on Monday morning. He was almost 17. After he died, Rob and I spent the day talking about him and looking at pictures of him. I found his kitten pictures, and I said, “See, he always had sad puppy eyes, from the