Tag: slow living

A Sunny Sunday with Famke and the Kittens

A Sunny Sunday with Famke and the Kittens

On Sunday morning, at about 11, I was weeding the meadow and Rob was loading the weedeater with some new string when we saw Famke leading her kittens out of the garage, their cozy, messy (temporary) home. We knew she was taking them on one 

Slow-Living Sunday

Slow-Living Sunday

Last Sunday, I had the best day ever, not because anything exciting happened but because of how peaceful I felt in my heart. I played with the cats, polished the furniture, carefully cleaned and rearranged my collection of Fiestaware, and hung a little garland of 

Treasuring October

Treasuring October

October is a magical month here in North Florida. The temperatures are pleasant, the leaves and grass are still green, and the meadows, vacant lots, and roadsides are abloom with yellow and purple wildflowers. After the long, hot, hard summer, the world seems fresh and new, and every little thing you do is more fun because the days are so cool and sparkling. Here’s how I’ve been enjoying this awesome time of year:



I made this little felt bat, a Halloween ornament, on a special day off, a Friday. It was so much fun. I got up way before dawn and sat sewing by lamplight in the living room in my pajamas as I watched a dumb Christmas rom-com called Something from Tiffany’s. Meanwhile, Buntin, my devoted tortie, snoozed beside me in a shoebox full of embroidery thread. Of course, she was sleeping on all the colors I wanted to use, and when I tried to very gently fish them out from under her, she growled softly, with her eyes closed. She was so cozy and cute in her little shoebox bed. When I petted her, she nibbled my hand, which is her own way of petting.



I’ve been thrifting and antiquing on my lunch hour. During one of my recent expeditions, I bought this little antique travel desk at Rabbit Creek Market in Tallahassee. I’d had my eye on the desk for many months. When it’s closed, it looks like a plain wooden box, but when you unlock it, it unfolds into an elaborate laptop desk, complete with a leather writing surface and cubbyholes to hold your ink, paper, and other supplies.


A pagoda-shaped knickknack shelf on a pink wall

Last week I solved a problem in the sunroom that’s been vexing me for years! I could never figure out what to put against the north wall. For a long time I had a little green-painted chair there, but the chair was low and the wall above it looked stark and empty. Well, last Thursday during my lunch hour, I found a neat pagoda-shaped knickknack shelf that I thought I could hang above the chair to fill in the empty space. I rushed home from work that night and hung the shelf, but there was still some awkward emptiness above the chair. Darn. It seemed like the new shelf was a bust. I stared at the wall for a long time, and finally I hit on a solution. I moved a plant stand (with a big fluffy fern on it) under the shelf, against the wall, then placed the low green chair beside it (to the south). The fern and the plant stand did a perfect job of filling in the empty space! I can’t tell you how proud I was of solving this “enormous” problem. I took pictures and bragged and boasted to Rob. Ha ha, I felt like I was on par with Einstein himself!


A beautiful white llama with black spots on her face
Photo by Bunny Kimel

The high point of the month was the annual Farm Tour. Mom, Bunny (my sister), and I got to tour four local farms on a sunny Saturday. We picked armloads of zinnias at Orchard Pond Organics, and a big bucket of Fuyu persimmons at Perfect Persimmons. We also got to see—and pet and feed—some adorable animals. At Redemptive Love Farm, a rescue farm in Miccosukee, we played with a litter of baby pigs!

“Look at their tiny tails!” Bunny said, delighted.

“And look at their tiny hooves!” I said. “It’s like they’re wearing dainty high-heeled shoes.”

Bunny nodded. “Their spots are so cute.”

“And it’s cute how they like to hang around together,” I said. “See how they’re strolling about the pen with their little sides touching? That’s too cute.”

Bunny agreed.

We also got to spend time with some llama ladies at Redemptive Love. As we walked near the llama enclosure, a beautiful white llama approached us in the funniest fashion. She spied my bag of food with her lovely large black eyes, then ran—fast, gracefully, and noiselessly—toward me, gazing intently at me as she went.

“Strong eye contact,” Bunny chuckled.

The llama ran right up to Bunny and me. She stopped about two inches from our faces. She was taller than we were.

“She’s so pretty!” I exclaimed.

And kind of intimidating,” Bunny chuckled again.

We ended up falling in love with the llamas. We fell in love with the whole farm.

“Well,” Bunny said, as we walked reluctantly back toward the car at the end of the tour, “I guess this was the best day ever!”

Vegan Strawberry-Almond Smoothie

Vegan Strawberry-Almond Smoothie

One of my favorite Saturday activities is whipping up a smoothie for myself in the early morning hours. It’s so fun and easy. I use almond butter, almond milk, ripe bananas, and organic frozen strawberries. In the lamplight before dawn, I like to sit with 

Lake Hall

Lake Hall

The other day I went back to Lake Hall, a place that was my home away from home when I was a kid. I brought my camera and walked around and took pictures and thought about old times. Lake Hall is a small freshwater lake 

Christmas Decorating 2021

Christmas Decorating 2021

A little yellow puppy toy sitting in a Christmas tree

On Sunday we put up our Christmas tree! Rob came home with the tree that afternoon. It was a nice, tall, straight tree with a perfect pyramid shape, but when we got it in the stand we noticed that its bottom branches had lost most of their needles.

“Well, I guess I didn’t go a very good job with the tree,” Rob said mournfully as he gazed at the carpet of needles on the floor.

“No, it’s a great tree,” I assured him. “We’ll just put some extra garland at the bottom. Garland disguises all manner of problems.”

We set the tree up in the back hall, then took a festive trip to the Quincy Walgreens to buy some more lights. On the way there we admired our neighbors’ porches festooned with red ribbon and greenery, and then in the store we had fun getting tempted by all the Christmas candy and other delights in the holiday aisle.

Once we were home again I started putting the new lights on the tree, and Buntin, our cute, complicated tortie, started playing with the twisty ties I had tossed on the floor when I unboxed them.

“Oh, Buntin’s so playful!” Rob said. “She loves Christmas!”

Soon more cats got involved in the tree trimming. As I was wrapping the tree in our charmingly shabby silver garland, June grabbed a length of it and began unwrapping the tree. A few minutes later, after I’d started in on hanging the ornaments, Rob reported from the kitchen, “I think Frankie stole an ornament and is playing with it in here!”

At this point, Rob was partly helping with the tree and partly eating snacks and watching football.

I kept working. I have a ton of ornaments. Christmas ornaments were some of my very first purchases as a working adult. I owned ornaments before I owned pretty much anything else! I just love them. Most of my ornaments are toy-like. I also have a collection of actual toys that I like to arrange under and in the tree.

The tree was missing a few branches on one side, so I said, “I need to find a toy to sit in this hole and fill it up with cuteness.”

Rob rummaged through the box containing my toy collection and dug up Pompompurin, a Sanrio character, a chubby yellow puppy sporting sunglasses. He said, “Little Pompompurin says, ‘This could be my time to shine!'”

I found a doll-size pillow and made Pompompurin a comfy little seat on a branch. When I got him positioned on the pillow, Rob said, “Okay, now that is just ridiculous.” He meant ridiculously cute!

It took me six hours to put all the ornaments on the tree. After a while Rob gave up any pretense of helping—and who could blame him? I was listening to Christmas music as I worked, but then the songs started getting a little repetitive. Luckily my sister Kris called me at around 8, so I talked on the phone and hung ornaments with one hand.

Kris had just returned from a trip to Tennessee. She’d taken my 18-year-old nephew, Jake, to visit the University of Memphis and audition for acceptance to the music program there. He got in! The whole family is so excited. On the phone Kris was telling me all about the audition. Jake wore a wine-red velvet jacket and performed “Amarillo by Morning,” singing and playing the guitar.

Pompompurin on his little perch:


I made the deer ornament in 2020, and Mom made the lace angel in the ’90s.


A stuffed deer ornament on a Christmas tree

You can’t be sad if you surround yourself with Sanrio characters!


A stuffed bumblebee ornament on a Christmas tree
Vegan Sweet Potato-Black Bean Soup and More

Vegan Sweet Potato-Black Bean Soup and More

Tonight I’m finishing up a rare four-day weekend. It was so much fun and felt like such a luxury! During most of my time off, I worked on a painting of a chubby baby bunny frolicking in a patch of bluets. I took breaks every 

The Night Before My Day Off

The Night Before My Day Off

On Tuesday, I took the day off from work. I really needed it. Tuesday was my day off, but I’m not going to tell you about Tuesday. I’m going to tell you about Monday night because it was even better than Tuesday. On Monday night, 

A Little Christmas Cheer

A Little Christmas Cheer

Over the rainy Thanksgiving weekend, Rob and I put up our Christmas tree and I started sewing some new felt ornaments for it. The cats got busy too—messing things up (lol). On Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, as Carl splashed in the water in the tree stand and Becky, Softee, and Frankie napped and bathed themselves on the tree’s red flannel skirt, I sewed and listened over and over to Love at the Thanksgiving Day Parade, the best holiday romance movie ever.

By Monday I had finished a felt pig, a deer, and a penguin. The little pig is probably my favorite because her veil and pearls remind me of Jackie Kennedy—she’s quite elegant. But I think all three characters are pretty cute. I made sure to give everybody a few pink accessories so they’d match the camellia blossoms when we did our photo shoot in the yard on Monday afternoon.


A felt pig ornament wearing a lace veil

A cute felt penguin ornament wearing a pearl necklace

A felt deer ornament